This past Tuesday, we had a multi-zone activity. We headed over to the stake centre and we got to watch... wait for it... extended alphabet letters for the suspense.. with some dots.... Meet the Mormons! Oh! Goodness gracious! If you haven't seen that movie, you must, must, MUST go see it! Now the question that all those that have seen it want to ask, "Well Elder? Did you cry?" "How can you not?" would be my reply. It is just marvelous! I couldn't pick a favorite person from it, but the beginning was quite hilarious! They are hoping to send it to the cinemas here this summer, which would be brilliant! I guess we'll see..
We got treated to Subway for lunch, and then split up into little teams for our "Olympics". My team was really nice, I had my old district leader from the MTC, Elder Boehme in it! Love him, he is a proper bozo! We chose to be Egypt in our competitions. Not too sure why, but I love our flag we made! So lets see, we started off with Around the World Ping Pong tournament thingie. I won our team a bronze medal, and was well chuffed/pleased with myself. Then after that... we played like World Cup football/soccer? Yeah, it was just madness, and we didn't get a medal there. Oh well, still great fun! I love spending time with other missionaries.
So this month we have been studying charity, which is quite ironic considering it was just Valentine's. I have loads of quote and insights about charity that I will write next week, but this week it is just going to be about, heh, the little things..
Here is a nice little example. A certain day this week had been a bit tough, appointments being cancelled, no one stopping on the street, etc. So I was just on the bus, looking for some solace in the Book of Mormon, when this young lady and probably her boyfriend come up the stairs and came to sit in front of me. Well the young man like hit his head, baha, and it seemed like it hurt. I simply checked if he was alright, and then complimented him on his hair color. Yes it was red... No surprise there. Well, he said something like redheads aren't too liked, and I said same for me in the States, but I think we are great anyways! I then got a phone call by someone, and that killed the conversation. This is the great bit, as he gets off, he gets my attention and says like "Hey, here you go pal." Handing me a paper crane he made! I was just taken aback, and replied, "Thanks!" Thinking wow, he made this for me? All I did was like, compliment his hair..? haha
I guess that is what inspired this to an extent. It was the little thing that made my day. Sometimes all people need is a genuine ear to listen, a smile, a thank you, or some time. I remember learning something in my communication class a couple years ago called "The 5 Love Languages". These five things are ways how people feel most loved by others. Things such as service, gratitude, gifts, quality time, or physical touch. The trick is, not loving others as you are best at, but going to their specific "love language." For an example, I love spending time with people. (It kills me having to leave members' homes!) I notice that they sacrifice their own personal time to be with me, or I guess as a missionary maybe even time to write me! I feel loved when others express genuine gratitude for things that I may do. Of course all the other ones I do feel loved, but we all are different! My challenge to any reader would be to have one, simple act of love a day. One a day! Pray for and vigilantly seek opportunities to provide that to another. Make specific plans each day of the week if you need. "Tuesday, I am going to empty the dishwasher for my mom. Friday night I'm going to spend time with my brother instead of going to a movie with friends." Easy.
The other day at church, a champion, young boy came up to me and gave me a pen. I was utterly confused. He replied, "The other week, you asked if I had a black pen, I went to give you a blue one, but you said you needed a black one.." Right he was, I am OCD and want my planner to be one color.. I cannot believe this young lad remembered! I then replied, "Thats right! Thank you, but I have a black one now!" "No no, take it.", he insisted. I took it with a brightened heart. Simple? Yes. It is the little things that can uplift a soul in time of unknown struggles. You never know when someone could be of use of your gentle love. Thank you for all the support, it means the world to me to be this blessed.
I simply love you. I really, really do,
- Elder Bennett
| Proper pancake mix! Oh goodness, I love the Lee Family SOOO much! Such bliss. |
| Our Olympic flag! Egypt! Hah, our motto though.. love it. Of course I am the only one who DIDN'T write in pen. C'mon.. |
| The simple, yet very meaningful paper crane. It was made out of the bus ticket stub. :) |